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🌺What If You Face Some Difficulties? -A wise person said to me 7 Things

2022.05.05

If you are worried about some difficult things you are facing, these expressions might be of help. These words were given to me by my friend, and I think they mean a lot.

 

【If you don’t have confidence in what you are doing, “Is that considered right or wrong?”】

(Answer)Things that are good for you to do might continue while things that are not necessarily beneficial to do might fade out gradually. So, there’s no need to worry. Nature will take its course. Just keep doing what you’re doing, and eventually you’ll know whether it’s worthwhile or not to continue.

 

【Bad luck comes in twos. I can’t deal with them any more…】

(Answer)Whenever bad luck comes in streaks, I try to think positively – “I live my own life, make my own decisions, enjoy the joys and pains that come with it, etc. This is my own brand of strength and no single person can copy this.” So, whenever I go through a hard time, I try to deal with it with a smile and an open heart. Eventually, you’ll come to realize that some difficulties might just be trivial experiences.

 

【So sad…I’m tired…what can I do?】

(Answer)No matter how hard or sad the situation you are currently facing seems, everything can help you grow. So, don’t be afraid to accept the reality. Whatever happens, happens.

 

【I don’t know which way I should take/go】

(Answer)Whether it be work, love or anything else life throws at you, remember this: whenever you need to make a choice, always follow your heart. Listen honestly to what the heart says and you’ll know that the answer might just be within yourself. You already chose it without your knowledge. Sometimes, our judgment is clouded as the brain says otherwise (tells us differently/another story). Your brain might calculate and regard the things which are good for you as the first priority, but sometimes that thought process turns out to be wrong. Your heart always chooses the right way. And, you will never regret being true to your hearts desires.

 

【 I have no power to do anything…】

(Answer)If you have no motivation or don’t want to do anything at all, then try to keep up with at least your basic lifestyle. You’ll find yourself bouncing back on the game in no time.

 

【Oh…I really hate the current me…What should I do?】

(Answer)If you dislike yourself at the moment and you want to make drastic changes in your life, you cannot expect a change overnight. Our future is created by the things we do in the present, which comes step by step. Maybe you have access to high-spec technology that can speed-up your transformation, but it will just be an instantaneous and short-term effect. It will not last forever, so you won’t really change at all. There is no short-cuts in life. All things and experiences are part of the process of life, and we have to trust the process.

 

【My big effort wasn’t rewarded at all…Why?】

(Answer)No matter how much you trust yourself or how much effort you exert at work or in your love life, you won’t always get a result you want. Sometimes, your efforts are not rewarded and may end in vain. Perhaps you end up losing a customer, a loved one or a relationship. No matter how bad things seem at the moment, it may be the best result for you at the time. These experiences may also mean that there’s something more that you need to learn. So don’t beat yourself up for having to deal with negative results. Instead, make the most out of it and use it as a learning opportunity.