You may think “I don’t like the current me because I only worry about things which haven’t happened yet… just wasting my time. How can I get over it?”
Well, at least you realize how bad the current you is, you already moved to the first step. But…it’s better to think philosophically so that you can live with a box full of happiness. Below are some tips on how one can become a philosophical person.
1.Just focus on the “present time”. Don’t fret about your future. How we live now is more important than troubling ourselves with the uncertainties of the future. In addition, enjoying the process of life is also essential.
2.Don’t choose or decide things with rose-colored/tinted glasses just because we desire it strongly or is profitable to us. We might lose something far more important in the end. The reality of the dream may not be as good as the wish
3.Avoid becoming a very calculating person or associating with these types of people. The world is balanced. There isn’t a single case to which we only gain profit, without losses or sacrifices. If we are too fixated on our personal gains or profits, we will end up losing more things than we gain.
4.Accept whatever happened to us. As they say, everything happens for a reason. Unwanted human relationships will annoy us incredibly, but this might have some meanings if we look closely or read between the lines. “How we deal with it” means a lot. Every situation has a lesson for us to learn.
5.Having ulterior motives will never do us any good and might just ruin our lives. Whenever we do something, our motives must be faithful and true.
If you complete the things above, you will not be fixated on things or worry about unnecessary things. With this, you will realize how happy you are and how much you are liked by people.